>>would you expect your wife to go to a job where ten of her male co-workers regularly called her a "S-L-U-T" or would you demand that action be taken.

I'm not married, but I can tell you while I certainly would not want my hypothetical wife to have that happen, I also would not want to be married to a woman who could not deal with that situation because she grew up shielded from unpleasant situations.