Somehow your language and incredibly crude dialogue are obscuring your message!
"Few recognize that I offer an outsider's view and actually am trying to help."
make it easier for (someone) to do something by offering one's services or resources.
"Roger's companion helped him with the rent"
synonyms: assist, aid, lend a (helping) hand to, give assistance to, come to the aid of; More
Seems to me you need help!